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| KC Concepcion and Rhian Ramos |
Moving on…….is another sentimental subject matter, just like the many others that I have poured my thoughts on. Easier said than done you might argue. Yes that is true, but do we have a choice? We usually say this to ourselves and to others after a heart wrenching break-up with a significant other. Or should I say insignificant? What do you do after this most feared stage in a relationship? Your guess is as good as mine:
Moving on simply means that you have to continue living despite the pain. Life is too short to perpetually dwell on painful episodes in our lives. Be realistic enough, to submit yourself to the idea that a relationship is not always spelled as f-o-r-e-v-e-r. Did I just hit raw nerves? After a break-up, do not feel the pain. Savor it! Do not pretend that you are fine because you are not. I guarantee you that. Cry and cry, until you come out fine and feel replenished. Let the pain flow out of your system, together with the tears.
Unfortunate events in our lives are forever etched in our minds. We do not forget, but we learn how to live, and deal with them. The problems that we are facing will not stop the earth from rotating on its axis. Life has to go on! After all, each problem that we confront is just a tiny dot in the vastness of the universe.......
LOVE IS A LOSING GAME.......
everybody is somebody's fool, but I think its ok to be a fool for love than to be a coward and not try at all.
ReplyDeleteI agree with what you said sir; "Do not pretend that you are fine because you are not. I guarantee you that. Cry and cry, until you come out fine and feel replenished. Let the pain flow out of your system, together with the tears." --may kanya kanyang time span ang tao para mag move on, wala namang standard time at rule na nagsabi na dapat after 3mo.. or after sometime ok ka na, nakalimutan mo na lahat.
I think that its ok to be bitter for a time, mag mukmok, kumain ng ice cream, at mag videoke with friends at kumakanta ng "sinaktan mo ang puso ko" (hahaha :> ) its human to feel the pain and cry, cause after all you've lost something/someone you hold very dear..
Moving on is brought about by change, and change no matter how painful is something we all have to endure..
Very well said my queen. Mukhang malalim pinaghugutan niyan ha? Life is what we make it. Thank you for a very thorough comment. I appreciate it. :)
ReplyDeletemy grandmother once told me "pain doesnt go away..you get used to it"
ReplyDeletetrue!
Deletemove on. forgive. don't take ant baggages with you so you can be free to love the person God has in store for you )
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